Severely collapsed trachea...what to do
I am in utter torment about what to do. My beloved bedwarmer and companion, who never leaves my side and has never had a collar on or been exposed to smoke, is suffering so horribly.
My husband said that I should put him to sleep. He is not even 4, yet!!! He is not a good candidate for the surgery and the medicine seems more of a waste of money (and traumatic vet visits) than anything else. The symptoms are not relieved and he suffers, so.
It started before age 2. It was occasional at the start, then several times a week. Now, its all day and almost constantly at night. Often, he is panicked and all I can do is try (helplessly) to comfort him as it happens. He gets unsteady on his feet during the fits, be it from the not breathing well, stress, vomiting or whatever.
Now, the fits are so bad that each night, each fit, I feel he is not going to survive and his last moments will be an agonizing death, slowly suffocating. Again, the meds aren't working very well.
Is my husband right? Should I put him down? I am dying inside. I don't want to do this, in case the vets are wrong and he could live a long time (I have seen them be wrong on such a prognosis...my first pom had this to a much more minor degree, was given 6 months and lived to be 12). Never have I seen anything like this, though!!! It's so horrible to watch, literally 5-10x per hour, 24 hours) and all I can do is cry, rock him and tell him "it's ok, mommy loves you".
Do I end his suffering?