Time to put him down?
Bogey has been to the doctor this week - he wasn't eating, he lost weight and he was very lethargic. He has been on a drip and perked up some and ate some. I have taken him for the weekend to "think" about it. He has been x-rayed and cat-scanned. He has congestive heart failure controlled by lasix, thyroid problems controlled by medication, and he's deaf.
Now they are telling me has two large gall stones, pancreas problems, possible stomach/intestinal cancer(bloody diarrhea, coughing coffee grounds like substance) and his spinal vertebrae have lost the cushion between several vertebrae to the point that they are rubbing, and spurs are growing onto (?) or around his spinal cord to the point that the vet doesn't understand why he isn't showing signs of paralysis in his back legs.
Of course, he is falling a lot so maybe he is. They do not want to operate - 50/50 chance of not waking up. The doctor says he has to be in pain but he does not react dramatically.
He is in pain but cannot tell how much. He does not yelp or flinch when touched but he will moan a little. And is having a great deal of trouble going up and down steps.
The vet has sent me home to think but I can tell they think it is time.
Any suggestions?